Sometimes we forget

There are times when we often look at other's fortunate lives, we forget how lucky we are in some other way.

There's this blog in my bloglist, which the writer is the wife of my sister's ex-schoolmate. She got married last February and now live happily with dr.husband in Brisbane because the husband works there. The blog tells nothing but her personal life, her activities and her feelings. Who wants to read about that huh? But trust me, the blog has so many fans and the comment sometimes reaches more than 200.

And some of those who read her blog felt envy with her perfect life with her perfect husband. They left mean comments. Oh, people..

But sometimes, when we read these sorts of things, we tend to compare with our own lives. Then we started to think, why cant our men be like that whereas some guys can and we tend to see what we don't have rather than what we have.

This is not good people. Life is indeed unfair. Some are blessed with good things throughout their lives but some are not that fortunate. Kalau kita sentiasa melihat ke atas, kita akan sentiasa merasa diri kita malang dan sentiasa tidak cukup, tak cukup baju, tak cukup duit, tak cukup hensem, rumah tak cukup besar, tak cukup kurus lah. Jadi lihatlah ke bawah, kita akan merasa bersyukur dengan apa yang kita ada kerana ada lagi insan2 lain yang lebih malang dari kita, suami pendera, takde pekerjaan, tinggal dalam lori, takda baju raya, takde kaki. (Tapi kalau untuk memajukan diri tu, janganla lihat ke bawah plak. Sampai bila2 tak maju cam tu.)

So far, I've been blessed with a very good life. I have a job, I have a perfect husband. Eventhough he didn't remember scrawny little details masa zaman bercinta dulu, he's indeed the most romantic person. We are not rich, we didn't eat expensive food, drive a luxury car, or own a big house but we have enough to live this life happily. Alhamdulillah.. As long as we love each other and love Allah, Allah will love us back and we will be happy. InshaAllah..